24-Year-Old Woman Seeks Advice After Six Abortions for ‘Still Hustling’ Boyfriend

A 24-year-old Nigerian woman has sparked emotional reactions online after revealing she’s had six abortions in four years for her 34-year-old boyfriend, who claims he is “still hustling” and not ready for marriage.

In a heartfelt message, the woman disclosed that despite being introduced to his family early in the relationship, the man has refused to pay her bride price or take steps toward formal commitment. “He keeps saying he’ll marry me, but after six abortions, I’m tired,” she said.

The woman is now considering getting pregnant again and hiding it until the sixth month, hoping it will pressure him into visiting her parents. “I just need something to make him marry me,” she added.

A relationship expert who spoke with our correspondent urged her to prioritize her health and warned against using pregnancy to trap a partner. “Six abortions are already a serious risk. She needs to focus on her wellbeing and demand clarity about their future,” the adviser said.

The story has stirred debate, with many urging the woman to reconsider the relationship and make choices that safeguard her health and dignity.