Lady Shows Unusual WhatsApp Message She Received from Married Man Asking Her Out, Sparks Reactions

In what many online users are calling both shameless and absurd, a young Nigerian lady has gone viral on TikTok after sharing a shocking WhatsApp message she received from a married man who was trying to ask her out.

According to a NewsVista report, the lady, who posts under the handle @iffunanyya, revealed that the man boldly urged her to disregard his marital status and “see him as a single guy.” His message, which she described as “embarrassing,” prompted her to block him instantly.

The message read:
“Don’t see me as a married man. See me as a single guy. Being married or single is in the eyes, babe. I really and deeply like you so dearly, like my own.”

In her caption, the lady sarcastically applauded the man’s audacity, writing:
“Let’s hear it for the man of the year. Blocked! Married men and steadily embarrassing their wives.”

The post quickly gained traction, with thousands reacting to the unusual attempt at flirting. Many viewers were stunned by the message, while others shared their own awkward experiences with married admirers who refused to respect their vows.

Social media users didn’t hold back in the comments:

One user wrote, “They’re not embarrassing their wives — they’re embarrassing themselves. The guilt isn’t shared.”

Another added, “If you’re going to act single, don’t get married. It’s that simple.”

A few joked about how confidently reckless the message was, with one user commenting, “I’m afraid he’s single in his own eyes, not ours.”

The post adds to the growing list of bizarre and controversial relationship interactions being shared online, where women are increasingly exposing inappropriate messages and boundary-crossing behavior, particularly from married men.

While reactions remain mixed — from outrage to dark humor — the overwhelming sentiment is clear: respect in relationships isn’t optional, even in private messages.