The Pastor Told My Wife to Stop Sleeping with Me Because I’m Spiritually “Unclean”

A Nigerian man has sparked serious debate online after revealing how his marriage has suffered due to what he describes as “religious manipulation” by his wife’s new pastor.

According to his emotional testimony, his once peaceful home has turned cold and distant — not because of infidelity or abuse — but due to a disturbing spiritual warning.

“For weeks, my wife stopped being intimate with me. No affection, no communication — only silence and excuses.”

When he confronted her, the shocking revelation came out.

“She told me her pastor saw a vision — that I’m spiritually unclean. That if she keeps sleeping with me, it will block her womb, destroy her business, and attract evil spirits into her life.”

The man said he has remained faithful and supportive, but his wife now treats him like a spiritual curse. She’s stopped all intimacy, attends nightly vigils, and reportedly refuses his advances with the words: “Pastor warned me.”

“I’m a stranger in my own home. Religion has become a wedge in my marriage. I feel betrayed, not by another man — but by a man behind the pulpit.”

“When Pastors Become Marriage Counselors”

His story has ignited conversation on social media, where many Nigerians are asking how far is too far when it comes to pastoral influence in private marriages.

Critics argue that religious leaders should guide, not control, and that faith must not replace logic or communication in relationships.