Ladies: If He Does These 4 Things Consistently, He’s Wasting Your Time

According to a NewsVista relationship report, not every man leaves loudly. Some just waste your time quietly — until you’re drained and confused. If a man wants you, he’ll act like it. If not, you’ll notice these subtle patterns.

Here are 4 signs he’s not serious, no matter how sweet he sounds:

1. He Keeps Saying “Let’s See How It Goes”
Anytime you ask where the relationship is headed, he dodges:
“Let’s not rush.”
“We’re just vibing.”
Truth is — he has no plan. And you’re not in it.

2. He Only Shows Up When He’s Bored
He disappears for days, then drops:
“Hey stranger…”
“I miss you.”
It’s not love — it’s convenience. You’re filling a temporary gap.

3. You’re Not Part of His Real Life
You’ve never met his friends. His family doesn’t know you.
No photos, no public mentions — just silence.
If he’s hiding you, he’s not claiming you.

4. He Gets Defensive When You Ask for Clarity
He flips it on you:
“You’re always stressing me.”
“Why bring drama?”
That’s not honesty — it’s emotional manipulation.

What To Do?
If two or more of these feel familiar — don’t beg, don’t explain.
Detach silently. Move forward with your dignity.

NewsVista Final Word:
Love should feel secure, not confusing.
If he’s not choosing you clearly, he’s just wasting your time.