If a Man Does These 3 Things While Dating You, He’ll Never Marry You

You give him your time, your love, your prayers…
Maybe even your body.

You keep hoping he’ll propose.
But months turn into years — and still, no ring, no plan, no clarity.

Sis, here’s a hard truth:

Some men know from day one that they’ll never marry you.
But they’ll enjoy your presence until you figure it out.

Here are 3 things a man will do if he’s never planning to marry you — even if he says “I love you.”

 1. He Treats You Like a “Secret Assignment”

• You’ve never met his family

• He doesn’t post you

• His friends act like they don’t know you exist

• He tells you: “I don’t like people in my business.”

Reality check:
A man who wants to marry you is not ashamed to be seen with you.
If he’s hiding you like a crime scene — you’re not his future.

If he can’t claim you publicly, he won’t commit to you permanently.

 2. He “Plans” But Never Proceeds

He says:

“You’re my wife o, I swear!”
“You know I’ll marry you now. Just be patient.”
“Next year we go run things.”

But 2 years later:

• No introduction

• No serious discussion

• No action — just empty vibes

Understand this:
A man who wants you long-term starts preparing — even if he’s broke.
He’ll plan with you, pray with you, grow with you.

If all you have is talk, not steps, you’re in emotional delay.

 3. He Enjoys All the Benefits — Without Commitment

• You cook, clean, help him, even sleep with him

• You give wife energy — but you’re not the wife

• He gives you just enough affection to keep you around

Sis, hear this:

If he already has your time, loyalty, support, and body — for free —
Why should he pay the bride price?

You’re making it too easy.
Love doesn’t mean suffering in silence.

You don’t have to beg for what should be mutual.

 Quick Signs He’s Not Going to Marry You:

• You feel like you’re in a situationship, not a relationship

• He avoids serious talks about the future

• You feel “used,” not “chosen”

• He jokes about marriage but never follows through

• He says: “Let’s just see how it goes…”

 What You Should Do:

✅ Ask God for clarity — not just emotions
✅ Set boundaries — no more “wife treatment” without direction
✅ Don’t waste your destiny on someone who’s just passing time

Remember:

You are a favor carrier — not a rehearsal project.

 Final Word:

“If he wanted to, he would.”
Not in words — in action.

Stop hoping a man will change into a husband…
He’s already showing you who he is.

If he’s not planting seeds now,
There’ll be no harvest later.

 Share this with a sister who’s in love but stuck. She may be giving her all to a man with no real plan.