He broke up with me two weeks to our church wedding

A Nigerian woman, Rejoice Elisha, has narrated how her estranged husband, Bongos, ended their relationship just two weeks before their scheduled church wedding. 

 

Rejoice, who shared her story in a Facebook post on Friday, April 17, 2026 said Bongos sent her back to her parents, saying he was no longer interested in the marriage because she’s “too stubborn and disrespectful.”

 

She shared her story because Bongos has been begging for reconciliation, claiming that he didn’t know what came over him. 

 

According to Rejoice, she and Bongos got married traditionally in 2022 but the relationship was plagued by trust issues and domestic violence. 

 

Rejoice said their church wedding was set for December 29, 2025.

 

However, two weeks before the wedding, Bongos took her back to her parents and left.

 

Unknown to her, he had already informed her father a few days that he didn’t want to proceed with the wedding because of her ‘stubbornness and lack of respect.’

 

“My supposed husband took me back to my parents two weeks to our wedding saying”he’s not marrying me again, that I’m too stubborn and very disrespectful” she wrote.

 

“We got married traditionally 8/10/2022, since then we’ve not been peaceful the major issue we keep having is Trust issues and Domestic violence.

 

“December 29/12/2025 was the date but he decided to take me back to my parents   without me knowing it was few days after he left my father told me that my husband said he’s not marrying me again that I was too stubborn and very disrespectful.

 

“I fell sick immediately I was dripped and placed on medication. The same thing happened to my father after telling me.

 

“His family couldn’t even call me to at least hear if something happened, but immediately demanded for everything that was paid on me to be refund, so my family accepted because we’ve separated for three times and this was the fourth time, clearly both families are exhausted and we’re left with no option than to do the needful which was the refund.

 

“But decided to return me to my parents, and because it was more like a force because I never knew about it until he left I accepted it, now he’s disturbing and I know deep down that he didn’t mean it when he say sorry because if he actually love me as he claims now he wouldn’t have gone xtra miles.

 

“Now after the wedding date and send forth prayer passed the same man who brought me back to my parents came begging that”he’s sorry and that he doesn’t know what came over him”

 

“If you are close to him, tell him to forget about me and move on, and that God will bless him with a woman who will honor him since I couldn’t.”